When should you start saving for your retirement?

Have you ever calculated your monthly expenses for 30 years from now? How much would you have to save in order to live a comfortable lifestyle then?
I had a riveting conversation about this with a friend of mine. He led me through an interesting thought experiment, which I’m going to share with you.

Assume you currently spend 1 Lakh rupees per month for your family to lead a comfortable lifestyle (Necessary Expenses + Other Expenses like Travel and Shopping). On taking into account an Inflation Rate of 6%, you would need to spend approx. 5.7 Lakh rupees per month to be able to afford a similar lifestyle 30 years from now. FIVE LAKHS AND SEVENTY THOUSAND RUPEES PER MONTH.

What. How?

100 Rs now has a certain value -> It can buy you x goods. With every passing year, the goods and services you can get for 100 Rupees will keep reducing. The purchasing power of a certain currency declines over time, because of the increase in price of the x goods that you buy. This phenomenon is called Inflation. Inflation Rate is not fixed per year, but usually ranged between 5.5% to 8% in India. At 8% Inflation, you would need 10x the amount you spend per month currently to maintain a similar lifestyle then.

Inflation and Purchasing Power are terms we learn pretty early on, but I had never actually done the math till last year or realised how much the compounding effect of inflation was.

Let’s come back to the example I used. Assuming you don’t intend to work 30 years from now, you would have to rely on income from other sources to generate 5 lakhs. The sources could be:

  • Interest from your savings and investments
  • Income from any real estate holdings
  • Income from business
  • Dipping into your actual savings (This should be a last resort for regular expenses)

Since it’s easiest to generate interest from your savings, I’ll deep dive into that. Assuming a inflation rate of 6%;

  1. If you’re getting 10% interest on your investment, you would need a total amount of 5 crores invested
  2. On the conservative side, at 8% interest on your investment, you would need a total amount of 6.25 crores invested

Compounding = awesome

Now this might seem like a lot of money, but there’s a silver lining. Compounding works the other way too! Any interest on savings you make will compound over a long period of time

If you save 1 Lakh Rupees per month for 30 years, assuming an interest rate of 8% per annum
Principal: 3.6 Crore Rupees
Final Amount (If you don’t touch the principal): 13.59 Crore Rupees

Try and maximise your savings. The urge to spend on things we don’t need is real, believe me, I’ve felt it. But in most cases, money gives better returns saved than spent.

Also don’t buy something that you cannot afford. Credit card users, I’m looking at us. Create a fund for something expensive that you would like to possess. Mull over the decision. Do not buy it with your credit card in the hope that you can pay for it in installments. Lavanya Mohan does a fantastic job of talking about this and other money related stuff in her blog, Pennmoney

But when should I start saving?

Ideally as soon as possible. Start saving when you start earning. If you have kids, teach them to save before they start earning. Don’t hesitate to use the money you save to invest in yourself. Nothing like it. But your expenses will only keep increasing over time. Your dependants might increase over time. So there’s no time like right now to save. Here’s stuff I do:

  1. Save first, spend later
    I have a standing instruction with my bank to send money to some recurring deposits at the start of the month. Most of my SIPs (Systematic Investment Plans) and mutual funds are also paid for at the beginning of the month. So now, only money left over is used for expenses.
  2. Buy stock
    No, I’m not going to tell you what stock to buy. Set up a demat account and ‘shop’ for stock. That satiates my need to shop to a certain degree, and it’s nice to see returns over a period of time.
  3. Mull over big purchases
    If there’s a piece of jewellery or an expensive outfit I like, I like sleeping over it. I spend several months thinking about purchases that I don’t immediately need to make. The end result is that I’m a lot happier when I finally put my foot down and make the purchase, and I seldom make big ticket purchases I regret.

I used 1 lakh for ease of depiction , I’m linking a compound interest calculator by Scripbox. Feel free do add the right numbers for you and make similar calculations. Inflation rates are also different in different countries. Feel free to assume the right inflation rate and proceed. Linking an inflation calculator too for those of you who want to try this out with other inflation rates.

The old lady and her backpack

25th March 2017

Dear Diary,

Today I touched base in my first new continent and 5th new country. My dad currently works in the capital city of Ethiopia, Adis Ababa, which a friend of mine was so kind as to inform me meant ‘The new flower.’  It’s only been about an hour since Amma and I got here and it is quite dark, so I can’t really say a lot about the city. But as we were waiting to make the payment for our visas on arrival, we met this gorgeous old lady and got to talking with her. She was alone, which was surprising for her age. She’d come down to Adis to spend three months here. When I asked her whether there was any reason she was here, she just said ‘Oh you know. Just to get to know the city. I’ll be staying at the oldest, cheapest hotel I could find here.’ She asked us whether we were from there, which startled me because until today I was of the opinion that I exuded ‘Indian’ in both my looks and behaviour.  When I laughed and told her that I was in fact Indian, she animatedly added that she had spent around 10 years in Delhi, way back before we were born. Now she could have misjudged my young looking Amma’s age and assumed we’ve been around only for 30 years. Ooor she genuinely could have been in India around 50 years ago, in which case, WOW!?! She told us that her husband used to be stationed there, when he was one of the first directors of the US Peace Corps. I really need to look up when the Peace Corps came to India*. Might give me an inkling as to how many years ago she was there.  She was American, but has a little house in the Caribbean where she lives when she isn’t travelling. Fancy that! I met a lady who must have lived the most exciting life, and still hasn’t forgotten how to live and learn in spite of her husband’s passing. When I grow up I hope I have her zest for life and her courage.  In 5 minutes we spent waiting in line to pay our Visa fees, that’s all I could find out about her. We did not even ask her what her name was. Part of me wishes I had more time, and the other rather wicked part is just enjoying speculating about the her past.

I’d peg her to be nearly 80 years old. She’s been through so many eras. The war. Apartheid. Rigorous changes in clothing styles. Today she was wearing a hoodie, bermudas and sneakers. Did she wear a gown/ Ankle length skirts when she was my age? Did she work? How many languages would she possibly know? How did she decide that she wanted to settle on the Caribbean?  I like to think she got married young. To her childhood sweetheart who volunteered for the Army. And that the two love birds have been travelling the world ever since her husband took up a diplomatic position. Maybe she had 3 kids. All of whom are middle-aged themselves, and have settled all over the world. After her husband resigned, the two of them must have decided to screw convention and pool their savings together for a house on a small Island. Perhaps it was her husband that gave her the wings and helped her find the courage to travel. Maybe he empowered her. Maybe he told her before he died that he didn’t want her to stop once he was gone.  I’m glad she listened to him. If she hadn’t, I would never have met her.

I hope she has a beautiful three months.

And I wish she could read this some day, and tell me how much I got right.

 

 

 

*(I looked it up. She wasn’t kidding. It was set up by JFK in 1961, before Amma)

2016 – A year in review.

It’s been an eventful year. But then of course it is stupid to expect nothing to happen to you over the course of 365 days. I think I should just talk about my phase of life that’s coming to an end. It began last year, when I graduated from college and began life as a corporate resource.

2015+2016

I learnt a lot, and I am not just referring to the coding/ work front. I learnt how to file my tax returns, how to draft a good rental agreement and how to ride a motorbike. Picked up a few chords on the Ukulele, and started doing a few covers that I share on my Instagram account. I did NOT learn a lot about cooking, but hopefully that will be remedied the coming year, because there really is only so much Maggi you can eat. I’m not the New-year-resolutions-kinda-gal, but I will resume baking and learn how to make a mean pot of pesto for my pasta. Does anyone know what the Indian name for the Basil leaf is, though?

An Air Conditioner in our apartment caught fire, and scared the bejeezuz out of us. I used to think fires were quite romantic and fire men were really badass and I stand very humbly corrected (about the first assumption). There is nothing exciting about a house catching fire. It was pure providence that got us out of the apartment in time that day, and I am thankful.

I learnt that I wasn’t great at keeping in touch with everyone I used to hang out with so effortlessly back in college with. I had to learn to let go of the relationships that were beginning to sour because of my inability to maintain WhatsApp conversations with everybody, and content myself with chancing upon the occasional picture or update on a social networking site. If any of you are reading this, I would want to apologize for the late replies and the one word answers. I would want to apologize for not starting conversations, until it became too late. I have made my peace with it, though, and I look forward watching you all thrive and inch closer to your dreams every hour.

I traveled. Mumbai, Hyderabad, Delhi, Chandigarh, Mohali, Simla, Manali, Kullu, Dehradun, Mussouri, Sankri, a Himalayan peak (Kedarkantha), Hampi, Bangalore, Manipal, Thrissur, Kochi, Fort Kochi, Vagamon, Kothamangalam, Chennai, Trichy, Pollachi, Coimbatore, Tirupur, and Pondicherri in the past 18 months. There was a trek through Kashmir that was very close to my heart, but that plan had to be scrapped.

I wrote a letter to my 26 year old self and sealed it up on my birthday last year, around the time the Chennai floods happened. The first half of the day was spent in the dark, eating Kesari cake and collecting rain water to use in our toilets and playing anthakshari. The second half of my birthday witnessed a three sixty degree turn in my fortune – we were rescued by a good Samaritan with a boat and then put up in Hotel Leela Palace by the organization we worked for.

2016

The year had a rocky beginning, what with the aftermath of the floods, and a very serious argument I had about bungee jumping and sky diving with an acquaintance. I probably have him to thank though. He set the cog wheels in motion for the trips I made in 2016.  A contrary streak and the fact that I thrive on proving people wrong(in a non-confrontational way) made me have a serious discussion with the BF1 ( Best Friend 1) about going away for a trek. We found a destination we liked, took a few opinions and wham! It all happened very fast. She had a bit of trouble getting parental consent, as did I. ( Read about the entire trip here, if you want.) The OBF (Other Best Friend) also joined us. It was eye opening, and I would make a long hike a yearly thing if I could. Some time in the mountains and no cellular connectivity really helps you spring clean the cobwebby memories and replace them with new ones of endless expanses of starry skies, furry friendly dogs that steal your food, and snowball fights. Post that we did a family trip around Himachal Pradesh. We spent around a week exploring Simla and Manali, eating apples plucked out of trees, paragliding, and getting dunked in the middle of the river while semi-zip lining across it. Amma was a Rockstar! – she climbed rocks, rode horses and pulled herself across a river, just like Appa, Kid bro and me. I was a little nervous about the trip, because I planned and executed it, but we had a lovely time, and I will have to write about it  separately later. I also made several weekend trips to visit friends and family across India, but that needn’t be described in detail. Hampi was another gold mine, which by the way is what the Mughals thought when they drilled through all the idols there , we had great company and lovely weather. Those nutella-banana pancakes at Mango Tree were heaven to this bunch of weary travelers. We would drive down on occasional Sundays to Pondicherry for crepes and croissants, sit by the corniche and  watch the waves kiss the rocks. The year ended on a high note, with a trip to Fujairah after forever. The weather was breezy, and sea glistened and home was sweet home. I spent two blissful weeks  waking up to breakfast made by either Appa or Amma, playing the piano and talking long walks by the beach. Celebrated my last day of 22 bouncing on trampolines and eating fish curry. Caught up with school friends. December was also the month of the multiple lipsticks. I’m now the proud owner of 3 (none of them were bought by me, but I love love love them.)! I hope I find the guts to use them now and then. The last three days of the year were spent in Bangalore, attending a cousin’s wedding and making merry. Our family really does know how to shake a leg!

On the relationship front, there were entries and exits. There were some exits that I would never have anticipated, but the human heart is like Wolverine. It heals with time. My family has been Ek Dum Number One, and Amma and Appa have surprised me more than once with their patience and gyaan (damn I think I’m out of the terrible teens finally) in spite of being in four different parts of the world most of the time. I was rudely awakened to the fact that the kid bro wasn’t a kid anymore, and that it was now up to him learn how to make the right and wrong choices about life, relationships and priorities. I am of the belief that he is a fighter though, and will plow through and eventually make the right choices. I’ve distanced myself from a lot of people I used to be close to. Friends have become acquaintances, and acquaintances friends. I want to thank the constants -special mentions to BF1, OBF and Mr Fox for refusing to be driven away by my antics. A wise man said that if you’re friends with a person for seven years, you’re friends with them forever. I want you guys in my forever list. I’ll see you at the finish line with Shawarma and cheese omelette.

I managed to read a bunch of books too, but I will have to compile the list later on. Spent several evenings playing street football with the kids in my apartment complex, and freelanced as a content writer for a startup. Started a bullet journal and a travel journal. Let’s see how long I can maintain them. So far, not so bad. Bought a new laptop and finally said buh bye to my five+ years old Toshiba. It feels like I’m using a sleek convertible after having driven an rusty jeep around.May I get used to it. I started blogging, and it’s been a relief to pen down things that I find difficult retaining in my head. I don’t know how many lives I have managed to affect or how many smiles and heart string tugs I have been able garner, but if I knew, i’d capture them all in a glass Jar, keep it next to my bed, and feel happy about being able to reach out and touch some minds. I became unexpectedly popular on Quora too, and I still don’t know if it was because my answers were good, or because my profile picture was that of a girl’s.

22 has been a disturbing age. On one hand, I felt like an amazonian wonder woman. Liberated. Independent. I was travelling on my own, paying my own bills and earning my bread, with plenty to put away for a rainy day. After a year of making grown up decisions, I felt like I could make no mistake. There was a world of possibilities at my footstep. On the other hand, I was confused. The 20s are a difficult time for girls in India. All our lives we are conditioned to be good students, study hard, get good scores and a great degree and suddenly at 23, society’s expectations from you change. You become a commodity on the marriage market, and everyone asks you when you are willing to settle down. Learning to cook and keep house become a priority, and folks begin to give you lectures about the importance of leaving your jobs to raise your kids. All at once, expanding your professional knowledge takes a backseat and you are subconsciously filled with notions of settling down. Travel is frowned upon. ‘Do it with your husband’, they say. Pictures put up on social networking sites are met with disapproving glances. ‘What if his family does not like it?’, they say. All our lives, we have been told to maintain a respectful distance from boys, and suddenly after you graduate, those principles go for a toss. We are shown pictures or told about XYZ’s son who is from a nice family and has a nice job. We are now expected to make quick decisions about who we are going to spend the rest of our lives with, and we are asked to repress those qualities of ours that make us different. I’ve had it a lot easier than most of the other girls out there, but I would want to put forth the message that all of you can power through and not succumb to pressure. Get married when you’re ready for it, and to someone you’re ready to spend the rest of your life with. Don’t get married to their family name, or fortune. Don’t get married to someone who expects you to change your identity and forget your past and your family. Don’t spend your life waiting for someone to love you and respect you when you don’t have to wait at all. YOU can love you. YOU have to give yourself respect before you can expect it from anyone else.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for settling down.. but I wish we all had someone to tell us how awesome we were just the way we were instead of expecting us to turn our lives topsy turvy for them. Girls aren’t a lot different from guys their age, and it would be nice to receive a pat on our backs and be told that we have done a good job so far.

 

That being said. I loved 2016. And I look forward to 2017. I don’t have a reputation for keeping resolutions but I hope I can waltz through 2017 with a lot of books I enjoy reading, friends I enjoy hanging out with, and the good health and happiness of all I hold dear to me, and everyone else in general.

As tiny Tim so rightly put it, ‘God bless everybody’.

How to Hampi!

So some time last month, a bunch of us decided to do a weekend trip to Hampi, a UNESCO World Heritage site in Karnataka. I promise I will get around to writing about the trip, but that will take time, and I noticed a  sudden spike in the number of people I know heading there, so here’s a list of Dos and Don’ts that may prove useful to you.

DOs :

  • Carry cash. No restaurant or vendor accepts cards, and there are no ATMs unless you go to the city. So make an estimate of how much you will want to spend, and take around 1500 Rupees more than that. The only other alternatives if you run out of money there are to either hire an auto and go to an ATM yourself, or to hire a local from those parts, give him your card and PIN and ask him to go to the nearest ATM and withdraw some for you. He will take a percentage cut from the amount as his payment.
    So just take the money, it’s going to save you a lot of trouble.
  • Book your place of stay in advance, especially if it’s the old Hampi that you want to go to. There are a very few luxury hotels, most budget travelers (like yours truly) resort to Guest Houses, traditionally owned and managed by families. Even these are few and high in demand!

    Padma Guest House was where I stayed, and they charged approximately 1500-2000 for a room that could accommodate 3 adults and the owners were friendly and hospitable.  ( You can reach Mr Sagar at 08394241331 if you want rooms here.) 

  •  Make sure your travel buddies know the Guest House you are all staying at and the number of the Guest House guy, especially if they are all coming down from different parts of India. There is barely any good signal in Hampi, more so if you don’t have a BSNL sim, so this is of utter importance. Make the ‘meet up plans’ and the contingencies in advance because it’s very likely phones are going to be useless.
  • Rent out Cycles. It’s the best way to explore Hampi. Motorized vehicles aren’t encouraged in the old Hampi side, and you can’t rent them out there. Cycles will do the trick for you because the important temples and Palaces are all reasonably close to each other.
  • Visit Mango Tree in old Hampi and the Laughing Buddha in new Hippie hampi for your meals.  I personally liked the Mango Tree ambiance and service a lot more than that of the Laughing Buddha, which serves beer and smells smokey. Do not miss the Nutella Banana Pancake at Mango Tree, Because Nutella anything tastes good and you need the sugar. Oh, the pizzas are great too!
  • Buy a map so you can pick out the places you want to visit and plan your day accordingly. There’s be plenty of people selling them.

 

Do Not

  • Litter. The people of Hampi take great pride in keeping their city clean, to the extent that there is barely any plastic bags used there. Respect that, and throw your rubbish in a bin, or hold on to it till you find one. You could carry a cover in your backpack for your wastes.
  • Hire a tour guide. Well, this is actually subjective. My point was, you really don’t need a tour guide. They charge a lot and you could get a better sourced information from a guide book by Dr. C.S Vasudevan, called Hampi. People sell it around the Virupaksha Temple bazaar for around 120 Rupees.
  • Mess with the monkeys. They are smart and more in number than you. They are also not afraid of you. Avoid going alone to an area with a lot of monkeys, and if you do, keep all your valuables and your cap in your backpack.
  • Get into the water at the lake if you have a fear of snakes. I saw a few slither down it. That being said, they are probably harmless. I’d be more worried about the crocodiles. Hehe. Just kidding. I wouldn’t advice you do pull a stunt and jump into the lake unless you had plenty of company and the local guides tell you that it is safe for you to do it. It’s a little difficult to trust that a natural water body is completely safe.
  • Miss the sunset by the river banks near Virupaksha Temple. It was absolutely serene and out of this world. There is apparently an elephant at Virupaksha that they take for morning baths by the river bank too. Try and catch a glimpse of that. I wasn’t able to.
  • Buy stuff from the brick and mortar stores near Hampi Bazaar. If you want a bargain, that is. You’ve be able to find a lot of smaller vendors selling handmade artifacts like bags and other knick knacks. You will be able to get a better price doing business with them.

 

 

Oh. and Here’s one last Do. Enjoy yourself. It’s a beautiful place.

 

Toodles and have a nice day!

Loony.

Amma

It’s your birthday in 2 days and you’re over 3000 Kilometers away from me, yet again. Appa is away, I’ve been away for the past 6 years, and now even your littlest boy bird is taller than you and has flown the nest.

In fact, I don’t remember the last time you made your birthday a big deal. Roshu and I would get our cakes and our parties and our birthday clothes. You were the caregiver of the family, and in our selfishness and childishness, we never stopped to wonder whether enough care was ever being given to you.

Was there, Amma? Did you feel unloved or unappreciated each time you had to wake up earlier than the rest of us, and make us our breakfast? Each time you denied yourself the pleasure of a little splurging just so that you had enough to pay for a new pair of shoes that I liked, or the fees of our piano tutors? Did you ever count the number of times we broke your heart? I’m sure there were several instances. All those sick nights you would wordlessly forgo your sleep and stay up with me and make sure I inhaled steam and was able to breathe evenly. I don’t think I ever said a word of thanks. Were there other dreams that you had to lock away in a closet because of us? Do you still remember any of them? Because each time I ask you what you want in life to make you happy, you just reply back saying ‘ If you and Rosh are settled and happy, then I’ll be happy. I don’t want anything else.’

Your life took a downward spiral nearly 23 years ago, when, ahem – you gave birth to me. I was the brat you never in your wildest dreams thought you would have.  Nearly 4 years after you had me, the second brat came into the picture.Between him, your husband and me  it is a medical miracle that you still don’t have any grey strands of hair on that beautiful head of yours. And that has been your life for around 24 years now. You, and your three kids. (Of course appa counts as your first big baby). Sure, we would like to think we’ve kept you amused, but I genuinely think we don’t say thank you enough. Sorry about that.

You know my inability to say anything emotional to you or Appa without actually bursting into tears. That’s mainly why I don’t. So I thought I’d take to typing it out instead. Frankly, it is not doing much to keep the tears at bay, but at least this coherent (I hope) , and you might understand a bit of it.

I just want to thank you.

Thank you for keeping me, and loving me, and reading stories to me at night when I was a baby. I’m sure there were moments you wished you could just throw me in the trash. Sorry for giving you so many mini heart attacks. My penchant for climbing everything from doorframes and windows to trees can’t have been easy on you. Yet you never stopped me. You let me fall, and you had to put together the pieces. Like that one time you were heavily pregnant with the little brat, and I swung off a chair and hit my head on the corner of a wall. You had to rush me to the emergency and get my head stitched up.

I remember this story Appa had told me. It was back in Oman, when I was still crawling around and couldn’t walk yet. A scorpion found its way into the living room. Appa was watching tv, and you were in the kitchen. I’m not sure what providence made you check on me, but you saw it inching its way closer to an unassuming me, and you just dropped everything and ran. And stamped it out. Barefooted. What sort of crazy head stamps out a scorpion barefooted?! I know only one person, ma. Thank you.

And you’ve taken the arrow for me, and the rest of the family so many times ever since. You’re like the rice in our meals. Underappreciated, but without which the pickle and sambar would be useless.

Thank you for those lovely childhood days. Those slightly lonely ones that we had to spend in Kerala when Appa was away searching for a new job. Every evening, after school, you would get us ready and take us to a park, where we would climb monkey bars and swing away to our heart’s content. I also remember how we would go on that little scooter of yours. Rosh, this fat chubby baby in overalls, wedged between you and me. You would tie a dupatta around us to ensure we didn’t fall off. I also remember a time I asked you whether I could turn the other way and sit behind you. So that I could see all the vehicles coming behind us. You never shot down my curiosity. You let me do it, still tying that faithful duppatta around me and you, so we were connected and nothing would happen to me. I spent the rest of that ride laughing in glee, and making other travelers around us look at me and smile. That day, I got to see the world from a different perspective. It was fun.

Thank you for encouraging, nay, forcing us to follow our dreams. Pushing us to strive to work harder, by setting an example. You were a a very popular teacher, and the amount of hard work you were able to put into both your personal and your professional life taught us that even we could find any balance we were looking for, and still not compromise on much. You must have had your heart in your mouth when I went off on a trek to the himalayas and you had no means of contacting me, but you trusted me, and you let me go.

Earlier this year, when I was really upset about something, you would call on me to check whether I was eating my meals on time, and ask me what I was up to. You could have been mad or disappointed in me, but you never showed it. In fact, that very night, you called me up yet again and asked me whether there was anything you could do to set things right again. You lowered yourself for me, and that broke my heart yet again. I had to cut the call hastily because I was choking up. Sorry I put you through all the drama I go through in life, and thanks for being that shoulder I could always rest on.

By the way, when we get so spend a few days every now and then together, I know you come and give me a soft kiss in the mornings when I’m still asleep. I don’t react to it because I don’t want to scare you away or make things awkward. I like those morning kisses. Don’t stop just because I told you now that I know you’re doing it.

Also, I have to confess something. Back in school when you would force me to have turmeric milk in the mornings for my perennial colds, I would often wait for you to go get ready and then flush my cup of milk down the toilet. Sorry. 😦 But turmeric milk?? Really? I don’t even like normal milk. I found turmeric milk disgusting.

I missed out mentioning about 250893 other instances for which I have to say thanks, but lets save those stories for other birthdays of yours, shall we?

For now I just want to wish you a very happy birthday, Amma. I often tell you that I want to become XYZ when I grow up. But in reality, if I grew up to even by half as emotionally strong and smart as you were, and affect at least half as many people positively, I think I will have achieved something great in life.

Stay as amazing as ever. After all, we have a lot more adventures to go on together. Can’t wait to ditch the boys and be your shopping buddy again.

 

Always your little big girl,

Mol

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My name is.

I met her a couple of months back at work. My slightly disgruntled self (blame my inability to enjoy hot summer mornings)  was at the pantry, filling my water bottle at the dispenser.

“Good morning, ma’am! How are you? ”

I looked up from intently staring at the dispenser (so as to will it to magically fill my bottle faster) and caught the eye of my saluter. She was uniformed, with a smiling round face, and was stacking ceramic cups with an efficiency that might put my grandmother to shame. I smiled at her, and wished her a good morning. When I asked her how she was, she blushed a little. ‘Fine thankyou.’

My bottle was full. I went back to my station, but continued to think of her. She didn’t strike me as similar to the other members of the maintenance team hired by my organization. There was a confidence in her gait, and a lack of timidity and subordination that was like a breath of fresh air. Here was a girl who was proud of what she was doing and willing to learn on the job. I used to meet her nearly every other day after that. On some days we would greet each other with a smile and  a nod whenever I went down to the pantry. On other days, she would come down to our work stations to clear away used cups/ the trash cans. We’d exchange a few words then. Came to learn that she was 23, a milestone that yours truly will soon be hitting. She was married too. A language barrier just makes me even shyer at attempting conversations, and the last thing I wanted was to make her uncomfortable, so I decided not to probe further into her life. I didn’t want to scare that butterfly I found so fascinating away. So I bided my time and waited, knowing a story would reach me one day. I hit jackpot this week.

This week’s was a lazy Sunday evening, I was taking a local train from Velachery to Indra Nagar to meet a friend. We were going to a concert put together by a German Orchestra and the Madras Musical Association, where one of our other friends was performing, as part of the choir.At the Tiruvanmayur station,I recognized a familiar face in a shalwar wave at me. It was her. I waved back and yelled out a hi, wondering whether she was returning home from work on a Sunday, but I enjoyed my position at the door of the train too much to find out, and I had to get off at the next station.

I met her the next day at work, in the pantry as usual, and she asked me where I had been going the previous day. I told her, and I asked her whether she had to work that Sunday. “Yes, I come 6 days a week.”, she said. “What is your name?” “My name is G.”, she said smiling.

Apparently the 6th day alternated between being a Saturday or a Sunday. I found out that she lived near Chennai Central, and that her husband was a taxi driver.What I wasn’t expecting, was her telling me she had a daughter.

“What? You have a child? So who takes care of the baby when you’re working?”

Veetla appa amma irruke, so no problem ma’am. She is school kid in second standard”

I don’t think I was able to successfully prevent my lower jaw from hanging open. I asked her what age she got married at. Just then, a colleague walked into the pantry, and she motioned to me that she’d tell me once he left.

“15 years.”

I didn’t know what to say, so I said wow. Here we were, two girls of around the same age. Leading two very different lives. She seemed happy enough, so I decided not to judge her for getting married at 15. I was writing my board exams at 15! Um, I am not sure I properly knew even how people procreated at that age. Yet here was this soul, mothering a 7 year old, working long shifts and earning for her family. And striving to improve her English while she was at it. I was just reminded again of the resilience of women. I’ve been surrounded by strong women all my life, and it touched me to meet another fighter.

“What’s her name?”, I asked.

“My daughter? Her name is Kavya.”

This revelation didn’t surprise me, for some reason. Once again, a Kavya of the world was gifted the love of a courageous mother. I sent up a small prayer wishing happiness on both mother and child.

My name is Kavya too, I told her. She smiled.

 

 

Kedarkantha: My climb to the skies and my slide down.

After many plans having been made and discarded, it was in Jan this year that I finally got down to getting on a conference call with a friend and giving life to something I’ve wanted to do for a long time – backpack. I kept putting it off due to lack of funds, or fear of getting molested, or work. So, finally coming across a company, IndiaHikes, that was reliable, reasonably priced, and did interesting treks through off-beaten tracks, I was elated.

In fact, we got so excited that we made our plans, paid our money, and bought our tickets without even telling our parents that we were doing so. We were girls, and I suppose that at the back of our mind, we were worried they’d refuse us immediately on hearing it was a backpacking trek – a Himalayan one at that. Also, the slots were filling out ridiculously fast, and we didn’t have the time to get the parental sanctions till we actually booked our places in the trek. When I finished all my transactions and booked my tickets, I was figuratively in seventh heaven. I was grinning from ear to ear and jumping up and down yelling to Nee about how glad I was that we were ‘manning up’ and doing this. I felt unnecessarily proud of the way I was spending my money on trips instead of going clubbing or binge shopping like 90 percent of the young population ( I will admit that I enjoy shopping, though.)

So you can’t really blame me for not completely anticipating the storm in a tea-cup between myself and Appa. He refused outright, saying it was too dangerous. We got into a huge fight and both of us, who have the same shoddy tempers that die out as soon as they flare, felt terrible. I thought he was being paranoid without a reason. It wasn’t a solo trek, I had two of my favorite idiots coming along.

Appa and Amma have been ever supportive of most decisions I’ve made in life, and considering he used to trek a lot in his youth, I was hurt that he didn’t want me, his daughter, to do it. HE was hurt that I hadn’t consulted them before. Remember me mentioning grinning from ear to ear? All it took was my dad feeling bad to make me feel like a three year old who had been caught shoving her finger into an electric socket (Yep, guilty as charged.)

I called him up, and both of us had a long emotional talk that ended in a positive note. And that was that. I was going to the Himalayas! It took me several days to stop feeling guilty though.

On the 18th of March, I said my byes, caught my flight to Delhi and my train from Delhi to Dehradun.  Note to self : The next time, do NOT book a flight that arrives at Delhi just 2 hours before your train from Delhi departs.

Day 1:

Phew. We reached Dehradun without incident (except that Chris lost his charger on the train). We met some of the people on our trek outside the station, and realized we were small shrimp, with our lack of real prior trekking experience. We began our 10 hour journey to Sankri, stopping for breakfast and lunch and praying that our stomachs would hold up. The drive was a surprisingly nice one, at least for me, and I spent most of it either looking at the view outside of my window, or drifting in and out of sleep. There were fairy tale villages on the sides of the hills and a crystal clear stream running through the valley. Towards the last leg of the drive, I finally caught my first sighting of snow capped mountains. ‘I’m going to be up there somewhere!’ an inner voice said.

We finally arrived at Govind National park,11kms inside of which the village of Sankri was located (at around 6400ft), and offloaded our backpacks. We met our trek leaders there, as well as some of the local guides, freshened up with some delicious pakodas, chutney and chai and had our briefing. All was well. Everyone was nice, and the view from the balcony was terrific. Deep inside, I had this underlying fear of getting AMS(Acute Mountain Sickness) and being unable to climb to the summit, especially because Mohit(one of the trek leads) refused to let me take Diamox, but I brushed that away.

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The view from our balconies

We were to begin our trek the following day, to Juda ka Thalab, and I think everyone slept that night dreaming of the climb.

Day 2:

The day began with us shivering under our blankets and rushing up for hot tea and breakfast. I was up early, caught a few words with our trek leads as I sipped my tea and looked out at the view. Eventually, everyone came up and there was the hullabaloo that surrounds a family that is just going away for a trip – people looking for things, bringing up their backpacks, and collecting rations.

Day was made infinitely better when a huge furry sheep dog bounded into the dining room! It was definitely too energetic for its size, but who am I to be a jerk and judge beings for their appearances, eh?

Anyway, the trek started off on a wet note: a light drizzle began just as we started walking and all of us had our ponchos out and looked like extremely colorful short humpbacked camels. We were to climb around 2600 ft (4.5 kms) that day, to our first campsite. There were fields of yellow flowers flanking us on either side. A couple of hundred meters down the lane, though, I was thinking, ‘Screw the flowers. Why is my backpack so heavy! Ouch, my shoulders!’ After a couple more hundred meters, though, I started getting the hang of it. We were all warm and energized from the climbing, and my backpack soon felt like part of me.

Around 2 and half hours into the trek, we saw it. Our first patch of fresh snow!  The weary mood of the group lightened, backpacks were immediately forgotten and flung to the ground, and a fierce snowball fight ensued, that ended with the participants being unable to feel their fingers. It was fun though. Real snow was a first for me and we all managed to enjoy a rare happy moment that went uncaptured on camera, and has already turned into just a memory. I doubt I’ll forget the feel of a well aimed hard snow ball hitting me face any time soon, though.

After some more climbing, we finally reached Juda Ka Thalab – the name was derived from two ponds there that appeared joined together. And just as we arrived, the snow started falling.  The campsite was pretty enough to be captured and put into one of those snow globes one shakes and keeps on their desk, what with the pines and ponds and grass and snow fall, but let me be a jerk and break a myth about snow fall – It’s DEFINITELY a nuisance when you’re wet and cold and need the tents put up and your shoes/socks dried.  Most of us ended up sitting huddled up in the dining tent trying to keep our teeth from chattering and feel our feet again. That reminds me of one of us, who actually ran barefoot from his tent to the dining tent over the snow because he left his cap behind there. And then couldn’t go back.

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View of JKT on clicked on the morning of Day 3

Hot drinks, lunch and dinner were welcomed and polished off, life stories were exchanged, and then most of us called it a night and turned in. I couldn’t sleep. The dogs stayed up howling and barking away to glory, and it was cold, so I stayed up and wrote about the day. I wouldn’t blame them though. It feels good to have furry guardians. I went out after I was done to realize the trek leads were still up, so I spoke to them for a while, and then turned in for the night. Went to sleep wondering how I was going to brush my teeth in the morning and praying for a little bit of sunlight.

Day 3:

Woke up shivering after a disturbed sleep, to find that the water had frozen over, both in the ponds and the barrel we use for our needs. Filled up my cup with water all the same, scooping up chunks of ice along with the liquid. Yep, I was right about worrying about brushing my teeth. Made a mental note to buy mouthwash the next time I did a trek, and to forget about washing my face. It’s funny how after a day in the Himalayas, any previous delusions of what cleanliness meant were shattered. I realized I had to make choices. The choice between washing my cup after a meal and feeling my fingers was a difficult one on the first day, maybe, but I soon learnt that there being a little leftover dhal in my cup just meant that my bournvita that night was going to taste masala-ey.  It was a taste I could (and did) get used to.

Anyway, I am a fast learner. For breakfast at JKT, I just held a roti in my hand, put some sabji in between my roti, made a burrito out of it, and felt pretty smug about my hack. It was sunny in spite of the cold, so I managed to warm myself a bit and take a couple of bites out of my burr-roti when wham! Out of nowhere, this beautiful black and white dog made a very graceful jump up just as I was going to put my roti in my mouth and neatly snatched it out of my hand. Without hurting me one bit. I really wish someone had captured that on video. I made my second burrito, and she managed to eat half of that too, when I let down my guard. That marked the start of my love story with the giant dogs of the Himalayas.

We started the trek to the KK Base camp at 9 am. The sun was shining brightly and  the distance was a relatively short climb of around 2100 ft (2.5 kms). We stretched before we began the day’s walk and soon didn’t feel cold anymore. The walk was a lovely one. On day 2, I was left feeling pretty disillusioned at snow fall and snow and all things cold in general, but the beauty and general playfulness of day three melted my stone cold heart. We’d stop every now and then for a full fledged snowball fight. I didn’t even try to shy away from getting hit on the face with a stinging ball of packed snow. Tripun Ji and Ganga Ji, our local guides, were fantastic at it. They could hit bullseye from a distance of around 35 meters or more, leaving them immune to becoming targets themselves. I unfortunately also discovered I had terrible aim. I just couldn’t hit anything with a snowball. Finally, I took to scooping up snow, running after my targets, and dumping it over their heads. This worked well for a while, till I made the mistake of taking on my 6 plus feet tall trek lead, Oshank. I tried dumping some snow on his head (I had to jump to do it, but I did it.). The poor guy was just there, minding his own business and pretending to be too grownup to involve in the tomfoolery, so I just had to pelt him one. By doing so, I put my life in danger. He looked like Leonidas yelling ‘THIS IS SPARTAAAA!’ before he tripped me over into the snow by dragging my legs and then putting snow inside of my Monkey Cap. Sigh. This is why they tell you to mess with someone your own size.

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Anna taking advantage of the fact  that I was on the ground to dump some more snow on me.

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Mongo the dog- sleeping through the rest of the day after the climb. He woke up again after sun set and thought it would be fun to bark away to glory with the rest of the dogs

We reached KK base all too soon, and I fell in love. Best campsite ever. Deep snow all around, a 360 degree view of pine forests and snow covered mountains, and an ever shining sun. Barely anyone was tired, so we spend the rest of the day doing a multitude of things like attempting to build a snowman, run down a snowy slope, learn how to wolf whistle, help a friend with a lovely group photo she wanted to do for her daughter, and of course, have snowball wars. Post lunch, a few took to their tents for a rest, and I went downhill, to a patch of grass I noticed, with my journal and my phone. Wrote for a while, took a few pictures because I was sure I wouldn’t come across a view like that one again, and sat down, just enjoying my own company. Day 3 of my KK trek is what comes to mind now when I think of what a perfect day should be like. The Moon was out in the west even before the Sun had set, that day. The cherry on the cake was that there were gulab jamuns for dinner.

We were supposed to get up by 3:00 am the following day, and leave by 4 for our summit climb. We put on our cool metal spikes under our shoe soles and our clothes for the climb, and called it a day. Me, not so much. I was finding it difficult to sleep up there. Way too cold and way too much barking. So I snuggled into my woolen liner the best that I could, and drifted in and out.

Day 4: The summit climb. (To 12850 ft.)

Woke up to the whistle at 3 and rushed out to try and perform our bodily functions in the dark. I decided to forgo brushing that morning (Who the hell brushes at 3am!) and borrowed Mohit’s mouthwash instead. Quickly wrapped up with the packing, chugged some tea and forced breakfast down my throat ( At any other time, it’s hard to keep me away from their food, it was delightful, but really, breakfast at 3 am? )

Even the trek leads were slightly disgruntled at our slow sleepy pace and gave us a rather scary lecture about the importance of keeping time, threatening to leave us behind. All of us decided to follow the tactic of keeping quiet (which helped), and it was a slightly sleepy trekking party in low spirits that started off the trek to the summit. We were told to march in a single line and keep one arm distance (Just kidding about the one arm distance), and it was dark, so all of us had our flashlights on and our trekking poles out.

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Thakurain and Mongo just being at home

We stopped now and then for water and pee breaks, and climbed quietly the rest of the time. The dogs were with us, of course, and I can’t explain to you the comfort I felt in knowing I had them there, and brushing against them now and then. There was no time for games or snow fights on Day 4. I guess everyone was concentrating on conserving their energy and making the summit. The climb was a steep one, and that’s when I understood why Day 3 was so chilled out. We did make occasional stops, to take the odd picture and look around us. I caught the sun rise, and at could look out to miles and miles of white snow covered land and mountains ahead of me. Our guides and trek leads were a real help with the motivation and the yells of ‘Sabaash!’. In an hour or so, we could see the Kedarkantha peak ahead of us. ‘Oh that’s all? This we can easily climb and reach’, was what was going on in my mind. Here’s where I learnt another new thing. Snow can also be ridiculously deceptive. The peak appeared near, and did not seem like a difficult climb, but the actual climb to the peak from the point we saw it, seemed never ending and very steep. Our feet started turning numb from the cold, our fingers had been numb for a while already and none of us could feel our faces. Breathing became a lot more labored and our lips and throats turned dry. We just trudged on and on. Looking down was a dangerous thing to do if you were afraid of heights. I’m not, but when I saw loose snow falling hundreds of feet over the side as I walked, I’d think about how easily that could be me, and gulp. I began wondering how in the world I was going to climb down without falling over when climbing up itself was so difficult. Then I stopped wondering about the climb down and decided to focus on reaching the top. Any stop became painful as we were all still in a single file, and in many uncomfortable positions of the climb that we needed to move out of. There were cruel winds blowing ice into our faces and clothes as if trying to test how much we could endure.

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My joy and exhaustion knew no bounds when I could finally see the Thrishul and the small shrine of stones that marked the very tip of the peak. I took a couple of minutes to catch my breath, whooped out of sheer exhilaration at having completed my very first trek and summit climb, and felt like a (very exhausted) super human. Spent the next few minutes taking pictures of the summit and the view from the summit, and cheering the rest of the troop who were steadily making it to the top. I watched as Tripun Ji broke a coconut at the shrine and shared pieces of Prasad with us all. Now I had also figuratively broken bread at the summit! How badass. Spent some time trying to hide from the winds and warm myself up, and then decided the best way to do that was to run around and goad my DSLR carrying buds to take a shot of me (I had sworn against selfies). I watched as a lunatic (not from our trekking group), took off this jacket and shirt at the summit so he could get a picture of himself topless surrounded by all the snow and mountains. I decided then, that I had seen it all.

We took a group picture, and gathered together to listen to Tripun Ji tell us a story of Shiva and the Kedarkantha. He pointed to us a number of other peaks and valleys what we could see from where we stood, like the Kala Parbath and the Har ki Doon valley.

And then, just like that, we decided to descend, taking a different route.

We were given two options. Either we could climb down, or we could slide. Yours truly chose to slide, of course. Honestly, I think my purpose of climbing the summit was to slide from the top, even though I didn’t know I was going to do it back then. We took out our ponchos, that made for excellent anti-friction agents and kept our pants dry(for the first few seconds anyway), and slid away to glory. We’d slide down the steeper parts of the slope, and run down the others (often losing any bodily control and just tumbling down most of the way), but the snow was soft and fresh, and no one got hurt. There was no longer a single file. People walked at the pace they wanted, just following the trail left behind in the snow.

I arrived back at KK Base camp half dead and faint from all the sun and dehydration, threw down my bag and sat down to be offered a bottle of lemon tang from a friend, which I gratefully accepted. Everyone seemed quiet and maxed out. Our tents were occupied by the following batch, so we just lounged out on the logs, drinking in the sun and a lot of Tang. Lunch was served once everyone made it back, and a quick rest followed, after which everyone was ready for the short descent to Hargaon, which would be our next campsite.

The descent was mostly through a fun, muddy trail, that involved in most of our boots and pant bottoms turning brown, but it was a warm and welcome trek down when considering the prospect of clean tents and warm snow-less grounds.

We arrived at Hargaon in less than an hour, to the sight of dry grassy fields and surrounding forests, and the sun making things warm and toasty. Having been brought up in a desert and done my degree in Tamil Nadu, I barely had any respect for sunshine, but this trek changed that. I’m not going to complain about the heat ever again. There was a mad happy rush to fling our backpacks and layers off, take off our boots and socks, and just lie down outside, soaking in the sun and drinking Tang. For all one could tell, we could have been in Goa.

The summit was done and dusted, and we would finally chill.

The rest of the day was spent in talking, getting ragged, and playing an insanely competitive game of ‘places’ word building. I think I’m done with my quota of word building for the year. It got very cold towards the evening, so we threw back on our layers, warmed our hands, and sat/ stood around in a huddle talking and listening to some great music on Oshank’s phone, following which many people, which to my surprise, included me, decided to crash for the night. And I had my first night of great sleep in four days! Yippie! I guess it takes a climb to the summit for me to get a good night’s sleep in the mountains.

Day 5

If there was one word to describe the morning, it would be ‘lazy’. If people wanted to wake up when the wakeup whistle was blown, they did. Plenty decided they’d sleep in and forgo their cup of tea. I was up early. I’d got accustomed to the routine, and wanted to make the most of my last day. Filled my cup, and went around listening to the conversations different groups were having with each other. Aryan, the 8 year old stud who was on the trek with his mother and father, was running around begging people to tell him a horror story. The general atmosphere was a happy and content one – Of a group of people who knew they had completed what they had set out to do, and wanted to make the most of the remaining time.

There was no more pushing, or calls for strict adherence of time. We got ready at a comfortable pace, after which we assembled for our last briefing while on the trek. Mohit and Oshank introduced us to all the Kitchen staff, who had kept our tummies so happy the previous few days and who gave us a purpose to continue our trekking( complete the walk for the day and get food at the next campsite).

And then, just like that, my trekking journey was nearly over. It was the last day, and I definitely did not want to go back.  During the trek, I’d linger behind, with a group of other vagabonds, openly flout our trek leads’ pleas to buck up and get going, throw our backpacks down in insubordination, and just lie down staring at the sky. Poor things. Later they gave up and realized they couldn’t beat us, so they joined us.

We lingered around, I took pictures of everything that fascinated me, collected flower samples that I could dry and press and store away with my journal and listened to some great music.

The trail was dry and there was greenery , fields of flowers and rhododendron trees all around us. Now and then we’d come across a stream of fresh cold water.

The memory of it all is still very fresh in my mind – A bunch of us, sitting around on a little bridge over a stream of fresh running water, sharing nuts and energy bars. Someone was playing a song on their mobile, and some others were trying to get one of us to dance. There was laughter ringing in the air, and the dogs had left us for other pups, knowing we could fend for ourselves and didn’t need their reassurance anymore.

We reached Sankri quite fast, in spite of all our attempts to postpone the end. I met quite a few red faced children in town, as I walked past their houses to my lodge. All of them would wave and yell out a ‘Hi!’ or ‘Hello, how are you?!’ in English to us. A couple of little kids asked me if I had chocolate, but I didn’t. (Mental note for next time)

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At the lodge, we found out that we had to leave the very day or risk missing our trains from Dehradun the next, as it was Holi and not a good time to travel on the road. A majority of us decided to leave the very day, which lead to mad rush to pack up our stuff, freshen up and have lunch.

We assembled in the dining hall to return our eco bags, collect our certificates, and say our farewells. Everyone had something nice to say, and even those who suffered during the trek were quite reluctant to leave. I’m not very good with farewells, they make me emotional, but there is nowhere at any point of life, when you aren’t missing something or someone, so I guess we all just resigned ourselves to it.

We were met with our last surprise of the trip when we headed out to load our backpacks into the vans. The local staff along with the trek leads had planned and perfectly executed a mini holi celebration!  Not one of us could avoid getting hit with the colour but when all is said and done, it was great fun and the perfect (albeit slightly filmy) way to wind up things.

All I could think off as we left in our cab was how it had been a perfectly lovely week and how it was finally nearing its end. And then I slept. Hehe. I slept through most of my return journey and was woken up at meal times. All the mountain fatigue and sleep deprivation knocked me clean out in the van, and I discovered later that was a good thing, considering the drive was a scary one after sundown.

I slept on, blissfully oblivious to everything that was happening around me till we reached Dehradun late at night, and checked into our hotel there.

Day 6

We were in actual rooms with quilts and toilets with hot running water. We had a flat screen TV  to watch things out of too. Thank God for that. We discovered the next morning when we went out to breakfast that every shop was closed under the pretext of holi, and every street was either suspiciously empty or scarily crowded. We decided we didn’t want to be attacked with color by a mad mob of people, so we frantically looked around for some shop that would feed us something. We were very lucky, we did find one. They were pretending to be closed, but were actually open, and let us in and even gave us a jolly good feast of Chole Bature and egg burji.

We returned to the hotel post breakfast, met the other sleepy heads, and spent the rest of the day either talking to each other or watching TV.

Stepped out again only for dinner, went to a restaurant where the waiters were ridiculously dumb and understood nothing we said. Left the place, went to another restaurant, discovered that the ‘slow’ restaurant staff must either be a Dehradun thing or a ‘post-holi-hangover’ thing, decided to just order anything we’d get fast, and leave to the railway station.

There was a minor moment of panic when we discovered that the receptionist at our hotel was also slow (during our checkout), but all of us thankfully made it to the station in time, and boarded our train to Delhi.

And that was the end.

Authors Note:

 A funny bond was forged during the 4 days of the trek, which left everyone reeling and wanting more, yours truly included. I found it hard to put in words back then how much that trek had meant to me.

 I sorely needed to get away from work and personal life, find somewhere I could give myself time and enjoy my own company. I was beginning to doubt my own worth as a person, and I guess I had to prove something to myself. Maybe in my heart of hearts, I expected the Himalayas to provide me with some answers I needed. In truth though, all that spiritual crap is bullshit. I definitely did not feel like giving up my materialistic life and becoming an Ascetic just because I spent a few days there. It felt great to be able to talk to my parents again, and sleep in a bed. But the mountains have some old magic in them. They put you in your place and make you realize you’re in fact just a teeny little being next to their might. You’re a lot more raw and uninhibited during a high strain situation like a trek and you realize what sort of person you are depending on how you behave in a scenario.

It opens your eyes to how a world left mostly untouched by human beings looks like, and you realize that you, and everyone else, needs to take responsibility ensuring that nature is not completely overthrown by mankind. I realized that I did not want to live in a metal and concrete city in the future, and I felt good that there were still a lot of places that folks were trying hard to conserve. I met a lot of great people, and I realized how much your attitude can affect the mood of your companion when you’re trekking. I felt myself gravitated to those who were funny or cheerful, and found something to laugh about in a mishap, and I realized I could try and be that sort of person too (in spite of not being a very funny person). I heard some inspirational stories. I learnt that age, gender, health problems were not to be considered barriers when going on a trek. They were just milestones to cover. I surprisingly, learnt to enjoy tea. In fact, the only complaint I have, is that the food was way too good. I actually put on a kilo after I completed my trek. (@indiahikes, this is NOT me telling you to arrange to make the food less good, though. )

P.S: I will be putting up the picture diary I made as soon as I can too. That’s going to take a while though.